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Albany's AAsum-Dufour Funeral Home has not been serving Oregon Memorial Association (OMA) members for several months at the current OMA member prices in effect statewide. During that time we have negotiated in good faith, as required by our February 25, 2014 contract. In late June, after reviewing the new price list OMA is proposing, effective 1 September 2017, the Dufours gave notice they are still unwilling to offer such deep discounts to our members. The contract has been canceled by mutual agreement.
The Albany-Corvallis area formerly served by AAsum-Dufour is within the service area of Salem's Restlawn Funeral Home. Restlawn has been OMA's contract provider since October 2007. OMA members who have filed their Personal Instruction Forms (PIFs) with AAsum-Dufour can continue to receive OMA member prices by asking AAsum-Dufour or OMA to transfer their PIFs to Restlawn. (Mileage charges will apply outside a 25-mile radius from Salem.) If you haven't filled out a PIF, or want to change your original instructions, you can download a PIF packet HERE.
Please share your thoughts about Oregon geography vis a vis OMA contracts with funeral homes. Tell us how this change will affect you.
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John Underwood died in May, 2017. He was the founder of Death Cafe.
As you all know the objective of Death Cafe is helping us all 'make the most of our finite lives'. With shocking poignancy on Sunday 25th June we experienced the finiteness of life at its most brutal. And more specifically the finiteness of the life of Jon Underwood, founder of Death Cafe, dad to two truly amazing children and my husband. He was 44. Comfort is very hard to find right now, but there is some in the fact that, through his work helping people come to terms with the idea of death, Jon was uniquely and unusually aware that life is short and appreciated his life fully, reflecting on this through daily practice. 'Life is good Donna' he would remind me regularly when I got lost in the challenges of the minutiae. I do this all the time, but Jon didn't. He lived every day reflecting very consciously on the fact that none of us know how long we have and focussed completely on being present in, and making the most of every minute. (full article here) |
• July 25, 7PM, Clinton Street Theatre, "Seven Songs for a Long Life." • July 29, 10AM- 12M; Death Café at Day Break Cohousing. • July 23, 2:30 - 4PM; Threshold Singers, Flanagan Chapel, Lewis & Clark College. | |
Here is the first part of an important investigative study made by NPR regarding your rights as a funeral consumer. Just below is a brief excerpt from the longer article. Thank You, NPR, for your consumer and community advocacy!
"The Funeral Rule, enacted in 1984 after years of resistance by the industry, requires that funeral businesses give consumers an itemized price list when they talk to them in person, and give them clear price information when they ask for it over the phone. The itemized list, known as the general price list, is meant to help consumers pick and choose what they want and filter out what they don't.
In recent years, federal regulators shopping undercover have found about 1 in 4 funeral homes break the rule and fail to disclose price information. That's even though they risk large fines from the federal government."
Written by Peter Smith and posted in the Pittsburgh Post-Gazette here's an article on the trend towards cremations:
For nearly a century it stood as the second-oldest crematory in use in the nation, although it would have received only occasional use for its first few decades, when more than 95 percent of Americans were still opting for burial.
That began to change in the 1960s, and now the nation has reached a cultural tipping point, with cremations out numbering burials. The Memorial Day tradition of paying respects for the departed are increasingly taking place in columbariums rather than graveyards.
The Beinhauer funeral home on the Dormont-Beechview line has responded to the trend by replacing its historic crematory with a state-of-the-art one with computerized controls — and by expanding the chapel and family waiting area around it so that relatives can be there during the process and participate if they choose.
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